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Community Nurse & Hospice Care, Inc. – A United Way Funded Agency
Success Story

Touching Lives - Meet the LaJoie’s

“Boy, 2004 was real tough on my wife and I,” said Mr. LaJoie from his beautifully decorated living room at home in Dartmouth. “I didn’t think we’d be doing this good after what we went through, but everyone at your agency helped us more than we ever expected.”

Charles and Beatrice LaJoie have enjoyed so much of what life has to offer in their …years of marriage. Mrs. LaJoie grew up in Dartmouth and spent many memorable and happy years working in the Fairhaven school system cafeterias. Mr. LaJoie, raised in New Bedford, drove tank trailers locally for years and eventually retired at the age of 59 from Sunbeam in New Bedford. Mrs. LaJoie describes their life by saying, “We always had good food, a good car and a clean home and a wonderful family. What more would we ever need?” The LaJoie’s downsized a few years back, opting for condo living so that they could enjoy traveling to Florida in the winter months and not have to worry about the upkeep of their Fairhaven home.

Recently, in February of 2004, the LaJoie’s experienced a series of debilitating events that would challenge the independence of this otherwise healthy, spirited and very independent couple. Mr. LaJoie was diagnosed with polyps on his colon and ended up in ICU at St. Luke’s Hospital. The LaJoie family was told that Mr. LaJoie might not make it through the night. Miraculously he improved and was transferred to Sippican Health Center in Marion for three months for short-term care. From Sippican, he was transferred back home with services from Community Nurse & Hospice Care.

“It felt kind of funny at first to have someone at home helping us because we are so independent. But everyone has to be smart and know when it is time to accept help,” states Mrs. LaJoie. Mr. LaJoie adds, “We never knew these things were around because we never needed them. There are a lot of services available for the sick and elderly if you find out about them.”

Mr. LaJoie made a recovery back to independence in a short period of time with the help of the clinical team at CNHC consisting of a nurse, physical therapist and homemaker from Coastline Elderly Services.

Unfortunately, when life seemed just about back to normal for the LaJoie’s, Mrs. LaJoie suffered a serious fall down a long stairway. It seemed unusual that she would have no broken bones given the severe bruising all over her face and body. Mrs. LaJoie was transported to St. Luke’s Hospital where she received 13 stitches in her head and treatment for the skin that was torn off of her arms and knees during the fall. After one week, Mrs. LaJoie was sent home with CNHC services. It was only a week when Mary Jane Depres, Mrs. LaJoie’s home care nurse, convinced her to go back to the hospital because she had developed severe flu symptoms. During her stay again at St. Luke’s, Mr. LaJoie was also admitted with similar symptoms for severe flu.

“I probably would have not gone to the hospital without Mary Jane’s insistence. She really kept an eye on what was going on with me,” says Mrs. LaJoie. “And imagine my surprise when I found out Charlie was in the hospital too! I thought he was coming to visit me and here he was-a patient!”

Mr. LaJoie was sent home after a few days to recuperate and Mrs. LaJoie returned to Sippican Health Center for three weeks of rehabilitation. She was then transferred back home. The LaJoie’s were pleased to be reunited with CNHC and their nurse who would monitor their flu recovery and symptoms and change the dressings on Mrs. LaJoie’s wounds from her fall.

“All in all, we’ve been lucky because of the wonderful care we have had. We don’t know what we would have done with the visiting nurses. We would have probably tried to rely on our son or grandkids, I don’t know. I know I’ll never see some of the people from CNHC again, but, boy, I’ll never forget them.”

The LaJoie’s are looking forward to a quieter and healthier 2005. Their 7 great-grandchildren are a delight, they say, and they expect to enjoy plenty of time with them. Looking back over the past year, the LaJoie’s recognize it wasn’t easy but they also say, “Be grateful. There are always others worse off than you.”
 

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